Custody Battle advice!

 This advice is given according to the way my court case went! it's up to you to decide on any advice you get from anyone!! Including your lawyers!  ALWAYS make sure you ask A LOT OF QUESTIONS!!

If this is your first time in court the first thing your going to need a good Lawyer! Click Here to see what I did to look for a layer!

The next thing you need to know is to NEVER BASH THE MOTHER, not to your lawyer not to the judge and most importantly not to your child(ren),  Let her bash you all she wants, explain to her that the kids will only resent her and the courts will only look down on her when found to be a lair, and make everything solely about the kids! here is something I did when found out she was badmouthing me in font of my child and in font of my friends

Next be prepared for false allegations.... they don't always make an appearance but when they do... they can knock you on your ass..... set you back for months or years if your not prepared for them.... DOCUMENT EVERYTHING start as soon as you realize their will be court, try to get as much saved onto text message and or email any of your social messengers and networks! keep the good and the bad  you never know what will come in handy,  This is my false allegation story. I got lucky I suppose....

Now I want to warn you about lieing.... NEVER LIE in court, if and when your lie unravels it will put you back 5 steps, and it's not worth it, I didn't lie  I had no reason to!  I had admitted to drugs that I used to do, WE USED TO DO... and she denied ever doing anything, well I brought in pictures! I also brought in a clean drug test!!

The last thing I can say about a custody battle is NEVER GIVE UP!!!  This is where I made my mistake... I settled for no custody with some visitation and biweekly sleepovers the only way a visit can be canceled is with a doctors note! Here is what I did with the first and last doctors not I got.... also had an "order to remove" put in place so we both need written permission to take our daughter out of the Provence and I have a right to seek any and all information regarding my daughter from any and all healthcare and care providers!!   Knowing what I know now and having the back up and support from all of you I will be going back for 50/50 Joint Custody & Parenting Time!!

You can read more about my court battle here

If you any question feel free to ask!
                   

How I got my 3 year old to stop picking her nose!!

Today I got tiered of my 3 year old putting her finger in her nose.... so here is what I did!!!!

I put my finger in my ear and told her it was stuck!! She tried to pull it out for an hour or so, than I told her last time I had a finger stuck in my nose and I had to go to the hospital.. she tried pulling out for 3 hours in total when she insisted I go to the doctors and have it looked at! so we got ready to leave and my finger just came out on it's own!!! now every time she goes to put her finger in her nose she stops and wipes it instead!!! ~Frank~
  
TRUE STORY!! 3 months later and every time she goes to pick her nose she wipes it instead!! and tips on how to get her to use a tissue?? HAHA

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Funny daddy daughter story!

I think I may have taken a bit to far LOL.

Today I was at the park with Matilda, when it started to rain, she quickly jumped it the stroller and we ran home, Just as we were opening the door we realized that we forgot Tiger Baby on the swing....

So she jumped back in the stroller off we ran back to the park in the rain, the whole way were calling Tiger Baby don't worry we are coming for you!! So when we finally got there I made it real dramatic, and I ran over to Tiger Baby picked him up gave him a big hug and said so sorry we forgot you, don't cry, it's ok, and was cradling him, Matilda just looked at me with her half smile look and rolled her eyes and gave me her famous OOOHHH DADDDDY!

ALL DADS PLEASE READ

Dads don't get enough credit in this world, and I for one am sick of it....
I started this page, to support others like myself, and  I now realize how big of a problem this really is.....

Now when I think about it, I realize we are only preaching to the quire with what we are doing here.... I mean don't get me wrong this page is a greatly needed page and helps us all out mentally and emotionally!! but we need to do something and we need to do something now.

I have been saying  ALWAYS STAY POSITIVE, lets come here to take our aggression. but have been contradicting myself when I say "WE WILL NEVER SEE RESULTS UNTIL PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT AFFECTED BY THIS, ARE JUST AS PISSED OFF AS WE ARE. and this true.. but I have found a positive way to help people be upset about our situations!!

Here is what I want EVERY DAD WITH VISITATION TO DO.. make your self a YouTube account and create a fun activity to do together and make a T.V show out of it! could be a comedy, or something cute, a handy man show or a how to show for the older kids!! something that shows  the world WHY KIDS NEED THEIR DADS! Let them pick something!




I would even like to see dads whom are still happily married take part ALL DADS EVERY WHERE!

I have started a cooking show here is the link to it's Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/CookingWithDaddy

Please share this post I want it to reach every dad our there even the dads who still live at home with there wife and kids!!
~Frank~

Stawbey/Coconut Squaes - Episode 1 - Cooking with Daddy

This was our first Episode!! It was never intended to be a show, just me baking with Matilda! when I uploaded some of the footage to Facebook the feedback was great and Cooking with Daddy Began!!

This was all done on my Blackberry curve, LOL I think the first 7 or 8 episodes were like this!

http://www.gofundme.com/SingleDadsFighingFathers

A little bit about the webpage we want to build...

Our first goal of getting a webpage is more than 1/5 complete! At $300 we can have is made for us and at $500 it will be live for 3 years!
http://www.gofundme.com/SingleDadsFighingFathers
Our page is going to have all the information, friendly advice and mental support an alienated parent will need to start and finish a battle for their children!
Starting with helpful advice and ways to try and work things out, out of court first!
All family/child care rules and regulations and laws from around the world, and it will be very organized and easy to find what you are looking for!
all the different levels of family court for each country!
http://www.gofundme.com/SingleDadsFighingFathers
We will have informative and supportive, movies, documentaries, shows, books, interviews, articles right on our page FREE for anyone to watch and read, all related to parent alienation.

We will have a live open chat with option to PM and contact admins 24 hours with future hopes of having a lawyer on once or twice a week to do Q&A! (also FREE of charge!)
http://www.gofundme.com/SingleDadsFighingFathers
All kinds of promotional goods to help spread the word about parent alienation

And there will be a few other surprises as well!

THANK YOU EVERYONE for your time and consideration in your donations to our cause!
~Frank~
http://www.gofundme.com/SingleDadsFighingFathers

Parental Alienation....

We are a fathers rights group fighting against parental alienation. A mother can say anything she wants to in court to prevent a father from seeing their children, and the father has to jump through hoops for sometimes months trying to prove their worth, only to go back to court and have her make up something else.

Our children are the one's who suffer the most. It is not their fault the parents can't get along. They did not choose their parents, Why are they being punished?

Why are fathers whom want to be fathers treated worse then criminals, at least they are innocent until proven guilty. and why do mothers not have to prove that they are capable of raising children until something bad happens?

Think about it?
http://www.gofundme.com/SingleDadsFighingFathers
~Frank~